Road to Happiness Part 2 : Well-being for Our Selves 

Last month I introduced the concept of achieving happiness following the five W’s I have thought through. These are

  • Well-being of ourselves: physical, mental, and personality
  • Wealth or absence of poverty
  • Working partner/Spouse/Love
  • Work and retirement
  • Well-wishers (Friends, Family, Culture, Religion, institutions)

Let’s talk about our Well-being:

Everyone attempts to find happiness in three ways: Doing good for others, doing things you’re good at, and doing things that are good for you.

The first part of well-being is our physical health. It is straightforward to state that healthy aging is essential for happiness. Throughout our life, our goal should be to prevent an illness. You have to eat right, sleep well, and carry out consistent physical activity to do so. In addition, avoiding too much alcohol or caffeine will help us to keep unhappiness at bay. 

Disability: People with disability have lower life satisfaction if their disability is recent and they lack social, economic, and health resources. Adaptative functioning will bring your happiness back to normal, but you do not have much time to gain that lost ground in your old age. 

Healthy Eating: Research suggests that healthy eating leads to happiness. Medical students who ate a healthy breakfast every day and had three meals and 1–2 snacks per day had the highest happiness score. Eating together daily or consuming holiday feasts makes people happy. For some, cooking and baking bring peace and joy to doing for others. 

Physical Activity: For many individuals, exercise works as well as any antidepressants and antianxiety meds. People who are physically active and not doing rigorous exercise are happy too. The goal is to keep moving. Exercise also brings people together; it helps you release your endorphins and brings confidence as you achieve your goals on regular bases. Outdoor hiking also brings you closer to nature and defends against negative moods.   

Sleep: Chronic Sleep deprivation has been linked to an increased risk of car crashes, poor work performance, and problems with mood and relationships. Sleep deprivation taxes the immune system and is associated with a heightened risk of high blood pressure, heart disease, stroke, diabetes, obesity, and depression. People who chronically fail to get enough sleep may be cutting their lives short.


Controlled intake of Alcohol: Research suggests people are momentarily happier when drinking alcohol. It increases the happiness level by 11% with the first drink. — but that over more extended periods, drinking more does not make them more satisfied with life


Coping skills and Regulation of affect: Learn to improve your coping skills. There are three types of skills. Appraisal focused (Know your problem, accept, deny, defer or fight), Problem Focused (What one does about the problem), Emotion Focused coping (How does one Controls emotions, venting, humor, acceptance).  Regulation of affect can be achieved by: Name that emotion, recognizing and validating that emotion, and identifying and resolving emotional triggers. Triggers can be biological, people or places, past experiences, our interpretations, controls non-acceptance